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In "Jane Eyre" by Charlotte Brontë I read:




"Burns" (such it seems was her name: the girls here were all called
by their surnames, as boys are elsewhere
)...




So my question is: were there (or are there) different rules for addressing boys and girls in English schools? And if so, how were the girls usually called if not by their surname?










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    Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
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  • @1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
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In "Jane Eyre" by Charlotte Brontë I read:




"Burns" (such it seems was her name: the girls here were all called
by their surnames, as boys are elsewhere
)...




So my question is: were there (or are there) different rules for addressing boys and girls in English schools? And if so, how were the girls usually called if not by their surname?










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    Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
    – 1006a
    3 hours ago










  • @1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
    – v_2e
    2 hours ago














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In "Jane Eyre" by Charlotte Brontë I read:




"Burns" (such it seems was her name: the girls here were all called
by their surnames, as boys are elsewhere
)...




So my question is: were there (or are there) different rules for addressing boys and girls in English schools? And if so, how were the girls usually called if not by their surname?










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In "Jane Eyre" by Charlotte Brontë I read:




"Burns" (such it seems was her name: the girls here were all called
by their surnames, as boys are elsewhere
)...




So my question is: were there (or are there) different rules for addressing boys and girls in English schools? And if so, how were the girls usually called if not by their surname?







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    Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
    – 1006a
    3 hours ago










  • @1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
    – v_2e
    2 hours ago














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    Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
    – 1006a
    3 hours ago










  • @1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
    – v_2e
    2 hours ago








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Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
– 1006a
3 hours ago




Hi, welcome to ELU! Are you wondering specifically about schools in England in Charlotte Brontë's time (Jane Eyre was published in the mid-1800s), or were you also asking about schools in other English-speaking locales and/or in the current era?
– 1006a
3 hours ago












@1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
– v_2e
2 hours ago




@1006a I was surprised to learn about such custom in England at that time, and it would certainly be interesting to know if there still is such custom of different addressing nowadays in England or other countries.
– v_2e
2 hours ago










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British schoolboys were traditionally addressed by their surnames (if two brothers attended the same school they would be 'Jones major' and 'Jones minor'). I went to a girls' school in the 1960s, but I attended some classes at a mixed school where boys were called by surnames and girls by their first names. I don't know if this custom is still observed; I guess probably not, and it's first names all round.



Jane Eyre evidently found it surprising that the girls at Lowood School were not called by their Christian names. I believe Charlotte Brontë based the school on one she attended in real life.






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  • It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
    – WS2
    1 hour ago












  • However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
    – WS2
    1 hour ago










  • I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
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British schoolboys were traditionally addressed by their surnames (if two brothers attended the same school they would be 'Jones major' and 'Jones minor'). I went to a girls' school in the 1960s, but I attended some classes at a mixed school where boys were called by surnames and girls by their first names. I don't know if this custom is still observed; I guess probably not, and it's first names all round.



Jane Eyre evidently found it surprising that the girls at Lowood School were not called by their Christian names. I believe Charlotte Brontë based the school on one she attended in real life.






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  • It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
    – WS2
    1 hour ago












  • However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
    – WS2
    1 hour ago










  • I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
    – Michael Harvey
    44 mins ago
















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British schoolboys were traditionally addressed by their surnames (if two brothers attended the same school they would be 'Jones major' and 'Jones minor'). I went to a girls' school in the 1960s, but I attended some classes at a mixed school where boys were called by surnames and girls by their first names. I don't know if this custom is still observed; I guess probably not, and it's first names all round.



Jane Eyre evidently found it surprising that the girls at Lowood School were not called by their Christian names. I believe Charlotte Brontë based the school on one she attended in real life.






share|improve this answer





















  • It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
    – WS2
    1 hour ago












  • However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
    – WS2
    1 hour ago










  • I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
    – Michael Harvey
    44 mins ago














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British schoolboys were traditionally addressed by their surnames (if two brothers attended the same school they would be 'Jones major' and 'Jones minor'). I went to a girls' school in the 1960s, but I attended some classes at a mixed school where boys were called by surnames and girls by their first names. I don't know if this custom is still observed; I guess probably not, and it's first names all round.



Jane Eyre evidently found it surprising that the girls at Lowood School were not called by their Christian names. I believe Charlotte Brontë based the school on one she attended in real life.






share|improve this answer












British schoolboys were traditionally addressed by their surnames (if two brothers attended the same school they would be 'Jones major' and 'Jones minor'). I went to a girls' school in the 1960s, but I attended some classes at a mixed school where boys were called by surnames and girls by their first names. I don't know if this custom is still observed; I guess probably not, and it's first names all round.



Jane Eyre evidently found it surprising that the girls at Lowood School were not called by their Christian names. I believe Charlotte Brontë based the school on one she attended in real life.







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  • It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
    – WS2
    1 hour ago












  • However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
    – WS2
    1 hour ago










  • I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
    – Michael Harvey
    44 mins ago


















  • It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
    – WS2
    1 hour ago












  • However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
    – WS2
    1 hour ago










  • I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
    – Michael Harvey
    44 mins ago
















It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
– WS2
1 hour ago






It was certainly the practice in Victorian and Edwardian Britain to address women in a softer tone than men, and as you rightly say that was the custom in schools in our time (mine being the 1950s). At Wimbledon, women players are still addressed as Miss or Mrs by the umpires, whilst men simply receive surname treatment. Wimbledon has never recognised Ms as a form of address. Serena Williams, who is married, but hasn't taken her husband's surname is described as Mrs Williams. And in the 1970s, "Advantage Miss Goolagong" must have been enough to strike terror into any opponent.
– WS2
1 hour ago














However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
– WS2
1 hour ago




However on becoming the first mother to win the Ladies singles, Yvonne was happy to accept "Game, set and match to Mrs Cawley".
– WS2
1 hour ago












I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
– Michael Harvey
44 mins ago




I was "Harvey" at Alleyn's School in the 1960s. I sometimes got accused of not turning up for Dave Harvey's detentions if the awarding teacher's writing was poor. When I met my best pal's dad, it became clear that he thought Harvey was my first name.
– Michael Harvey
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